Kid’s songs: Bringing Home a Baby Bumblebee

Trying to get Atti to cooperate during speech therapy is a herculean task. This kid has an iron will, which is awesome because it means that when he wants something, he cannot be stopped. But it sucks because often what he wants is to not do what his mom or teachers are asking him to [...]

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Year of Pleasures: View from a swing

When I miss having seasons, I’m going to look at this picture. California is wonderful.

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Lemonade out of Lemons

Last week and this week have been – and continue to be – challenging in a way that makes me accept every scrap of pity people send my way as the mom of a child with a disability. Bear has already started work in his new building, which is an hour and 45 minutes away. [...]

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Placerville here we come

Last weekend, amid history being made and discovering new sisterfriends, we also took a trip up to what we got word will be our new hometown. Placerville is just East of Sacramento, a short twenty minutes away from the edge of the city, resting at the foot of the Sierra mountains. It’s an old gold [...]

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Year of Pleasures: History is Made

This weekend was the semi-annual conference for my religion, and for the first time in the history of the church, a woman prayed over the entire congregation. Not only did a woman pray, but two women prayed. One as an opening prayer, and one as a closing. On a local level women have been praying [...]

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Listen To Your Mother

Photo by Margaret Andrews of Nanny Goats in Panties So much happened this weekend it’s going to take me the rest of the week to tell you about it. And it took half of this week even to wrap my head around it. It was everything I’ve been missing in my life all wrapped up [...]

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Year of Pleasures: Tulips

One of the best things about living in Modesto is living where everything grows. Just up the street is a farm that specializes in tulips, and the other day Bear stopped to bring me a present. They walked out to the field, cut them from the ground, and wrapped them up to send them home. [...]

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Change is hard

We have had tremendous good fortune in Atti’s therapists and case workers and doctors. There have only been a couple of people that weren’t good fits, and everyone else has been the most dedicated, kind, supportive professionals I could ever dream of. One of our most favorites is Atti’s Occupational Therapist, Margie. Atti fell in [...]

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Cat out of the bag

Finally. FINALLY. I can talk about the big secret that’s been bottlenecking all my blogging mojo. Bear has succeeded in bagging his white whale – he’s gotten his dream job. There is a long long sordid history of interest to no one but us, but this has been a journey that started before Atti was [...]

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Year of Pleasures: Blossoms popping

As kids at church we sing a song called Popcorn Popping on the Apricot Tree. It’s a sweet little song talking about the glories of spring and how the flowers on blossoming trees look like popcorn. This tree is apparently growing neon candy popcorn balls. But my gosh is that the most gorgeous shade of [...]

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